I stumble across a blog, a KPOPXXX tumblr blog that showcases erotic and sexy pictorial of Asian men. But one of the post intrgue me. There's this fan of him whose asking several question including the never ending question "CAN YOU GIVE SOME TIPS TO FIND A GOOD BOYFRIEND? "
A question that will always be asked by anybody. Yet the question of this men-flesh filled blog surprised me. Wouldn't expect him to find such 'ordinary' yet truth-filled answer.
Here is his answwer:
Unless you’re a believer of online dating, i suggest you stop using the internet and invest a good chunk of your time meeting people the old fashion way: through friends, classmates, etc (it could even be that one guy you see every lunch time that you find attractive…make small talk with him).
Communication is key. but most of all, wait. don’t rush it. if you go out looking for it…chances are, you’ll be disappointed. you have no idea…the relationship i am in now is so much more different compared to my past, more naive relationships. this relationship actually feels like a relationship and i think the reason to that is because i never went about looking for it.
I had no intention of getting in a relationship. my boyfriend before he was my boyfriend was just that one starbucks barista who i was attracted to. i would see him every morning when i pick up my grande americano, and went on with my busy student life. him asking me out was like getting hit by a bus (metaphorically of course)…and i think that’s the best way to get into a relationship.
The best way to find a boyfriend is to let him find you. lol…spoken like a true bottom my apologies.
Sigh, such a sweet answer :')
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